So you have put the time in, found that special someone, and started a relationship. Now what do you do? Well there are some sure fire ways to avoid committing 'Relationship Suicide'! These simple yet fatal mistakes can mean the end to all the work you did, and what could have been a good thing.

Misunderstanding what a relationship is all about. Communication is the hardest tightrope to walk in relationships. Do not assume that what you believe as the history, current events, and future of the relationship will be interpreted similarly by yourself and your mate. Be clear and concise about your expectations and needs. This will save any pains and confusions in that might be your demise.

Inability to relax without constant activity and excitement. Relationships always start out full of excitement, or they wouldn't start at all. It is that exhilaration that keeps the flow of interest going, but eventually you will have to learn to slow down and know if it is those activities or the person you are excited by. Learn to relax and enjoy the person to keep the relationship strong.

Trying to invoke too much of your own control. Being a couple is a great feeling. From the time we are young we are taught to 'pair up' and make two become one. To keep this a healthy coupling you must learn to be individuals while being together, which means ~ do not call forth to much control over the relationship. Having your own ideals, focus points, and purposes in life while continuing to work on a common goal together will keep you strong.

Don't be needy or overemotional. Sharing yourself and your needs are important in a relationship, but sometimes this can go to far. If your partner becomes your sinkhole for emotional outbursts then the habit of outpouring can become a serious issue. It may trigger negative reactions every time you see them, which will make them shy away from you. No one wants to be the constant receiver of negativity without being able to enjoy the benefits of the positive aspects of a healthy relationship.

Smothering each other. Even time apart, equal and separate friends, and hobbies that define self are all healthy aspects of a meaningful relationship. You can have great times together while respecting each others space as well. If you spend every waking hour together and then some you will be sure to burn out in the relationship, which will end your time in remorse and bitterness.

We hope these tips help you stop yourself from committing relationship suicide. If you haven't found that perfect someone yet, or have already committed these fatal mistakes and are ready to move on, be sure to peruse the thousands of members right here at www.classyarrangements.com waiting for that elite date, just like you.

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