Suddenly, on the first skipped rendezvous, neglected call, or failed attempt at attention you feel distanced and disregarded. Your imaginary relationship feels as if it's faltering when really it was only a healthy relationship progressing on a normal course. But where did you get confused?

The Chase: We are taught to chase, and so someone must run. This process means more chase is needed. You can see where this is going, right? I know you may be thinking the chaser is the one in charge and the pursuer not, but this may not necessarily be true. How available do you make yourself? Reducing your availability increases your value. If you are giving chase, you may be obsessed until you catch your prize, but not truly in charge. Strive for a healthy balance. While someone surely has to pursue, choosing wisely how and when to do so makes an appealing attraction force.

The Plan: A Relationship by definition are feelings that connect two parties. The idea of planning your feelings is impossible. Obsessing over what will happen with someone, how it will happen, or especially when will only cause more problems... certainly during the beginning stages of dealing with each other. Allow fluid emotion to guide you, plan your life... feel your relationships.

Letting it Flow: Don't be too 'sweet' or 'accommodating' if it's not your true nature. Show your real self and work with in your realm of comfort. Show emotion, but don't go over board. Remember men and women speak different languages, so be sure to find a medium translation terminology for you both. Make efforts so communication is easy and fun.

Be sure you remember what you are looking for in a relationship, to make yourself happy and have a wonderful life. If all you are doing is changing yourself or obsessing over love then you are missing your mark.

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Meow Baby,

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